seven (7) important things you could do to improve in bed,because these are the things men would have you do more in the sack.
1. Initiate more
Enough of waiting for your man to come get you first, [sometimes] regularly go get him. It turns a whole lot of men on when women do this.
2. Be open-minded
Loads of men love adventure and a woman who’s willing to try something new is everything.
3. Take control
Initiating is one side of a coin, taking control is the other, and learning how to implement this will drive your guy nuts and earn you extra points.
“An older woman I had been dating actually pinned me down, told me not to move, got on top of me and gave it to me for a solid 10 minutes. Taking the reigns like that every once in a while totally does it for me.” says a certain 24-year-old Jerry. [Not his real name] 4. Be vocal!!!
This can never be said enough. Women often tend to keep quiet and sulk about stuff because they think a man should know.
Come on, men are not mind-readers – not during sex and certainly not in other aspects of the relationship or marriage!
All you need do is ask. Just say what you want and how you want it – you’d be surprised at his eagerness to actually please.
5. How about a little more boldness?
Hmm? How about that, ladies? A little more boldness when you’re at it will endear you to your man for sure.
6. Non-sexual demands during sex is a no-no
How about not asking for money for a new makeup kit or red bottoms during sex?
A quickie here and there won’t hurt no one, ladies. Especially if it’s you initiating it.